I’ve been meaning to write this post a bit sooner, as it’s sort of related to Ambiversion, but I had a very busy week and then spent all weekend in Bellingham for a wedding. Anyway I’m trying to build a social life as a single young adult in the city, but I…
Ambiversion
I went home early last night. Not super early mind you, but eleven instead of one, and instead of staying for the after party. I was tired, probably because I’ve been getting up at four every morning for work, but still, I didn’t used to be like this. When I…
Rainchecked!
My play-date had been postponed till next month. Something important came up on her end, I didn’t ask what. While a small disappointment, the news did alleviate the butterflies I was starting to get. The nervous excitement of a new social event, and naughty fun. It’s also given me more…
Hot Plans
As you already know, I’m going to a play party Friday, and I’m also going to go a Birthday party for someone I met through the BDSM scene. Which is a pretty full docket for me, since I’m often a bit of a homebody. In anycase on Sunday I got…
Virgin Shaming and Kink
I’m a bit of an odd duck I’m sure you’ve realized by now. Being both an abstinent, virginal, Christian boy and a submissive, masochist, kink blogger is hardly a common pairing. While I’ve thought long and hard about how I might go about making kink and submission sound appealing to…
Personal Ad news
So I posted a personal ad in a few different spots online Sunday. I also Put up a profile on CollarMe, not that I’ve ever heard anything good about the site, but it takes little effort for me to post a profile with a few relevant details. So far results have been Ok.…
Catwoman: The Difference between Domme and Dominantrix
First off, stop reading my blog and go read this amazing post here, on Delving into Deviance about performative gender roles and BDSM. Dev, if you didn’t know, also wrote The Devaluation of Male Submission which kicked off a whole bunch of dialogue that has made it easier for me…
Caveats and addendums
Being that my ideal romantic d/s partner is a bit of a tall order, and I’m interested in having my fancy tickled in the meantime I’ve been giving some thought to finding a casual play partner. This isn’t exactly a 180* from my previous position on casual play and the…
First munch, Second impressions
So like I said, I went to my first munch last night. This wasn’t my first time at a BDSM scene event, but it was my first munch, and my first time attending (anything really) by myself not knowing anyone who was going to be there. Instead of going to…
Moving, Munch, and laptop woes.
Aaaah! I’ve been computerless for a week and I ‘ve got so much to say I hardly know where to start. I moved, finally. I got all moved last Friday, the week prior having been so stressful I hadn’t written at all, and then when I got all settled into…