One of the most common little themes I see floating around the discussion of Femdom relationships is that “the way” to get compliance from your male sub is to deny him sex. Not just sex, but sometimes any touch, or affection or permission to view his partners body. Which, listen…
A blogger’s work is never done.
So many of my posts have been written in the wee hours. That magical time when instead of letting me sleep my brain shifts into overdrive and floods my mind with ideas, words and phrases that I want to share. But right now I’m geting up before dawn every morning,…
It was a good day.
A good week actually. My first week at my new job rocked. I think it’s fair to say I kicked all sorts of ass. I think this job is going to be really good, and with my experience there is some opportunity to move up the ladder pretty quickly. My mom came…
Tell me again, How can a man be submissive and sexy?
I’m still struggling to find a way to be a sexy man. One of my major stumbling blocks is that the foundation of heterosexual male attractiveness in our culture is masculinity, which is always coded as dominant (among other things.) In preparation and inspiration for this post I read another…
Everything’s going so well!
Commence the celebration! I am once again gainfully employed, or I should be starting Monday. I won’t say exactly where but it’s a famous coffee chain and it rhymes with Narbucks. It’s early mornings so I’ve got to swap my sleep schedule so that I can be at work bright…
Under-thinking precedes Over-thinking
If you are at all familiar with my blog you should be able to tell that I over think almost everything, especially in regards to inter-personal relationships. Except sometimes I don’t. You may recall that I totally jumped the gun on signing up for OKCupid. I sometimes think about finding…
Curiouser and curiouser.
So I have a younger sibling, who is pretty cool, I guess, I’ve often said they were trying to be a miniature version of me growing up. A few months ago we were talking, and when the subject came up of my most recently read books came up, I mentioned Kushiel’s dart…
For sale, to Good Home.
I was going to hold off on writing on this topic until I had a new job (still working on that) cause I’m not after sympathy, I just want to discuss submissiveness and and depression. Not that there is a connection or even a correlation between the two, but since there are 18.8…
Manscape Architecture
I broke my record number of page views today! Which is sort exciting for me, I hit a high back in April, and have only come close to touching it a few times since then. I’ve got a couple of things that I’m planning on writing about here in the…