The struggle to make male submission an accepted expression of sexuality is obviously just one teeny-tiny part of a larger struggle for the freedom of sexual expression everywhere. It’s one of those instances, where I figure one should lead, follow or get out of the way. I very much appreciate the…
As close as it gets #6 True Blood
True Blood is a marvelously sexy HBO program that despite pushing a lot of envelopes still seems to fall into the same tired routine of making Female characters that display both Dominance and sexuality, evil (or at the very least unstable.) Up until now, maybe, hopefully, I’ll explain. The premise…
Heaven’s in the Details
Apropos of the correspondence in this post, and the comments on this one, I’m going to try to express how I can see BDSM as not just sexual but romantic. Dominance and submission are the elements of BDSM I that I see as having the most potential to be an…
How can that Turn you on?
I originally posted this on Tumblr, before I started this blog. I’m quite satisfied with this little post on masochism, and occasionally link it to other things, (like most recent post) but every time I do I have to hunt through my archives to find it, so Now I’m putting it here…
How it’s going
Since one of the big things I am looking for in a romantic partner is shared religious beliefs, I anticipate that I am going to have to either introduce the concept of BDSM to this hypothetical future partner or perhaps seriously change her perception of BDSM. I think it’s why…
Of two (or more) minds
Clarisse Thorn, who I’ve been reading more and more recently, posted a comment on her most recent post that really encapsulates something I’ve been trying to express for a while. … people have fragmented selves and non-unified minds; we’re pulled in so many directions by biology, culture, outside incentives, etc. But…
Socks
Socks are like sex. Tons of it about and I never seem to get any. – Prince George Most of the socks I own today were purchased a few years ago when I worked every night wearing a pair of Doc Marten’s. So nearly all of my socks are shin…
Slacking
I’m having difficulty getting some things onto the page, so here’s something old that’s been languishing on my Fetlife page. An amusing anecdote in which our hero is beset by lesbians. One afternoon a few years ago I was working at a drive-thu espresso stand. I was either manning the stand…
Aaand I’m an Idiot.
I just wrote a post about Femdom in the Whedonverse and I completely forgot to mention Glory. The big bad from season five, is a hell Goddess who clearly draws inspiration from the Dommely domme stereotype. She’s surrounded by gross scabby submissive minions that serve her every whim, they worship her…
As Close as it gets #5 Whedonverse
As Close as it Gets is my re-occurring feature to highlight media I like that contains vicarious Femdom thrills. This Time I’m covering all the shows of Joss Whedon. I’m doing four shows at once, because while there are a significant number of moments, images and themes that hit the spot…