I haven’t been motivated to write anything particularly serious recently, or more than a couple posts in the last two weeks (except for my new BFL page, chronicling my workouts and updated every time I go to the Gym.) For whatever reason I got a higher than average number of hits today,…
Running Man
Readers of Fern’s blog already know my big announcement today. After slacking off for far too long I’m hitting the gym with renewed vigor, following the same exercise routine as Ferns for the next twelve weeks. I’ve got a profile on Jetfit that you can follow if you’re really interested, or just…
Quick Dirty Thought.
I haven’t written anything in the last week, I’ve got some posts on deck, but nothing I’m going to finish tonight. I have a quick thought that I wanted to put up and see if it sparks discussion. I see on forums and stuff, dominant/sadist identified people struggling with how…
A new word for Friend-zone
Or rather we need one, actually it’s not even that, we need to not use “Friend-zone” as a verb. I thought I had posted about this but I guess I just had plans to that were interrupted by my being fired and subsequent pity party. Having read a bazillion posts about the phenomena surrounding the…
Addressing Privilege for the first time
For the first time in my life I’ve started to really examine privilege. Up until this point (as a straight white male) it has been easy to ignore the issue of privilege. Not just easy, effortless, I know I’ve heard it mentioned before, but it was usually in sort of…
Show up Naked
So I found this on Tumblr tonight: HOW TO SATISFY A WOMAN EVERY TIME Caress, praise, pamper, relish, savor, massage, make plans, fix, empathize, serenade, compliment, support, feed, tantalize, bathe, humor, placate, stimulate, jiffylube, stroke, console, purr, hug, coddle, excite, pacify, protect, phone, correspond, anticipate, nuzzle, smooch, toast, minister to,…
The Big Penis Industry
I have an average sized penis. The sad thing here is that writing that, admitting to you dear reader that my penis is not some throbbing obelisk rising impressively from my pubis to tower over all creation, causing women to melt with lust and men to cower in terror and shame, informing…
On breaking free.
Melancholy, my old friend, visits frequent, once again. As I’ve said before, I’m not a patient man. What is most frustrating about getting let go from my job, is that it feels like I’m again being forced to wait for my life to move forward out of this holding pattern…
Fuck.
That sweet new job that I was digging so much and quit my last job to take, decided I wasn’t fast enough and let me go today. It’s hardly the end of the world, and I’m certain I’ll find something here pretty soon. Still it’s a bummer because I really…