Language is important, and people will make judgements about you for the words you choose. Since I am trying to make my self as attractive as possible to women with dominant leanings, I have changed my language somewhat to cut out words that I have reason to believe might be found objectionable.…
Freedom?
You know what I kink on harder than pegging, or spanking, or biting, or gingers? Ownership, and symbols of ownership. It’s hard to explain, My masochism seems to me a relatively innocuous kink compared to the desire to have someone else control my autonomy. Which is why I found it easier to explain my…
Old fashioned, Kinky.
I mentioned the other day that I signed up for OKcupid. I’m still sort of apprehensive about it, I think I probably should have waited to take a stab at this, until I was a little more satisfied in a few other areas. But one thing I do like to…
Premature
I have a plan. Or rather, I had a plan, for the next five months. I was going to hit the Gym, find a new job, and then shop around for the best way to start actively seeking a partner. I signed up for OKcupid the other day. So far,…
My anaconda don’t want none?
My laptop charger died last week and I just got it replaced yesterday (ok, the day before yesterday, and I’ve been procrastinating. Shit, this is taking forever to write, let’s just say Thursday. I got a new cord on Thursday.). Being without my computer for the better part of a week sucked ,…
Cocks: where they fit into my fantasy life.
I’m apprehensive about writing this post. That what I say might be taken out of context, That someone I know might find my blog. I kind of have this idea, that besides serving as a journal, and a place for discussion, that someday I might meet a lady that I…
Can’t hardly wait
I’m not sure if it comes across in the tone of my writing or not, but when I mention my disinclination to enter the scene, or my trepidation about jumping into the lifestyle, or even just explaining my desires to a future girlfriend, I’m trying to convince myself as much as anyone else. It first…
Looks like Gay Marriage is gonna be legal in Washington soon.
When it comes to gay marriage I usually keep my mouth shut. Trying to balance my Christian beliefs and not being a giant asshole can be challenging. It seems though Sen. Mary Margaret Haugen, of Washington State has got that down. She recently announced her support for a bill that would legalize gay marriage in Washington state,…
I don’t wanna be where The wild things are
I’ve read a few things this week, that had me thinking about “the BDSM scene” and why I’m disinterested in it. Even though I feel as if my long term happiness is dependent on finding a woman whose desires mesh with mine, I don’t really want to join the community…
Anticipation
It’s going to hurt. I know this already, and it’s not a pain I’m looking forward to. I’m sure I’ll be sore afterwards, for days probably. People are going to be there, watching me. They’re going to know that I haven’t got a lot of experience with this sort of…