I intended to write another “As close as it gets” post, my reoccurring feature on popular fiction with D/s themes, but I don’t feel like it. I’m still thinking about Lady D’s comment on my last post. “I think many men…aren’t used to being “desired”…I’ve also noticed that gay and…
Come on feel the noise
I’m not really a worrier, I know I’ve written about a lot of things that I “worry” about. What I really mean when I say that, is that I think about something, and then go “that’s probably not great.” (Such as Femdom in Fiction and the messages it sends.) I…
Lock the closet door
I mentioned here that I live with a couple of guys who while not bros entirely are capable of emitting frattyness at alarmingly high levels. Getting intelligent conversation out of them, can be a Sisyphean endeavor. Often, our “conversations” boil down to obnoxious games of would you rather. Being constantly…
It’s My Birthday
I turn Twenty-three today, I beleive I’m owed 23 spankings… on second thought make that 276 to make up for my previous birthdays as well. Sigh, Off to work.
Let’s Talk about Ex
Lady D has me featured over on her blog right now as the first entry in her series Demystifying the Virgin Unicorn. Over there, you can read me talking a bit about why I’m holding onto my V-card. I mentioned in that post the last (and only) major relationship I…
Un-dating
Sherlock, has been popping up on my radar lately for having hints of BDSM and F/m or some-such. Just watched the first episode. Quite good, Steven Moffat knows his business. I’ve been thinkingabout a scene where Watson and his new acquaintance/flatmate Sherlock Holmes get a table at a restaurant together…
When I say Submissive…
My personal favorite author and definite candidate for a later as close as it gets post Neal Stephenson included the following exchange in his genre-bending epic Cryptonomicon “I don’t like the word ‘addict’ because it has terrible connotations,” Root says one day, as they are sunning themselves on the afterdeck.…
Peroxide’s Shiny New Year
I’ll be twenty-three in a few weeks. Firmly ensconced in my twenties with not much to show for it. I’ve let the last few years slip by, and so as I begin 2012 I’ve resolved to accomplish some things this year. It’s funny, none of my friends have made new…
Oedipus Wrecks
Is it just me or do Mommy/boy fantasies come off as creepier than Daddy/girl? If you’ve been following along, you know I’m not in (nor have I been in) a D/s relationship. Someday, hopefully, I will be in one, and then we (my hypothetical future domme and I) will…