In which I solicit your input and then inflict unsolicited advice in return! I’ve got this idea that I’m working on to write out a bit of a guide to finding a male-sub partner, but I’m still collecting information, and trying to put together something that is more helpful than…
e[lust] #45
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Change of plans
I had a date with Tavi on Saturday, probably the last real date night we’re going to have for a few weeks as she’s cramming for the Gmat right now. We had plans for doing some new play, with a toy she brought back from kinkfest, and I was pretty…
Plugs for plugs
Speaking of getting off, Something that I’ve been interested in doing for a while now is doing some sex toy reviews. I think it would be an interesting change of pace for one. For two, I don’t recall seeing very many toy reviews by men, (although I don’t read that many men’s blogs)…
Getting off isn’t so easy
Something I remember reading when I first started looking into BDSM was that it wasn’t necessarily sexual for some people. This was a little tricky to grasp for me because it is pretty intensely sexual for me. Well, parts of it are. D/s is definitely how I enjoy my romantic and sexual interactions to play out,…
What I’ve been up to
I haven’t posted in over a week, which may be causing some of you to worry that I’ve died. Don’t worry, that is not the case. I’ve just been busy and tired, and short on interesting topics that can be easily written about. Lucky for me, a recap of what I’ve been…
I’m a Dirty Slut
I’ve got this, I guess you’d call it a verbal tick. When I’m doing something that requires concentration, quick maneuvering or causes a spike in my stress levels I often say “something” or maybe hum or make some sort of noise. It’s a little quirky, and I don’t think I would have…
Female Supremacy and other (hot) Myths
Most of my favorite fantasies ride the line between masturbatory imaginings and daydreams. The really hot stuff for me, tends to stretch itself out lazily in my imagination, growing in dimension and playing out in lots of fun little ways. Female Supremacy is something I can do that with. …
Tasting her
In the dim light of her room I light the candles and get undressed as instructed. When she’s ready she comes in, already naked, and tells me to assume the position. I grab the pillow that I will use to muffle my cries and bend over at the end of…
Depression bites
I’ve been depressed the past few weeks. I’m having what I tend to think of as a low period, which for me is usually a couple of weeks of intensely negative feelings, lethargy, weariness maybe some aches and pains. I’m fairly certain it’s coming towards a close, or at least a middle, since I’m able…