Busy Busy Week

I’ve got piles of things I want to write about, but since it’s been almost a week since I’ve written. I figured I’d toss out a quick update.

Last Wednesday I got to spend a ton of time with Tavi, which was awesome, since our midweek dates are usually kinda short. I picked her up from work, we had dinner, and ran a few errands, and then when back to her place for the one of the best beatings she’s ever given me.

I had to have a handkerchief in my mouth so I wouldn’t bite down on my temporary crown. Face down into a pillow, she caned me for ages. Slowly working up to a higher intensity, she put me naked over her bare legs and held me still. She also used a metal whippy cat toy for a bit, but I never got a look at it.

Something about having a gag in, seems to make me hold back a bit. But we went for a long time, and honestly it’s a bit hazy, but eventually Tavi decided I’d bottomed out. I remember sorta thinking I could take more, but as soon as she removed the gag, I just broke down in her arms.

This is the crappy phone pick I took of her work two days later. So, day of it was magnificent.

Afterwards, there were plenty of snuggles and sexiness. It was a glorious perfect day.

And then Thursday I had to work. Work has been super busy, and a bit stressful, and ugh.

Friday I took off and drove back to my home town, to go to my dentist to get the permanent crown put on. I’ve been dealing with a lot of discomfort, since the temporary was set high (or at least I hope it’s that, because if it starts acting up I’m going to need a root canal.) Getting the crown on went super smoothly, I spent the day with my family before heading back down south.

Saturday, The marvelous author of Kink in exile was in town for the first time in approximately forever. We had brunch with some friends, and got coffee and talked about the BDSM scene as a monopoly, kink blogging and what stuff brings in readers (We both get spikes after mentioning chastity.)  It was really excellent.

We split up for a bit, because I had to go to the gym, but met up at Seattle’s Kinky Geek Munch which was pretty cool. I haven’t been to any munches in a couple months, and I rather enjoy being able to play some nerdy games while talking kink. Tavi even showed up looking stunning (although she’d just had some dental stuff done that’s left her feeling less than great.) and we got to hang out for a bit.

Sunday: had more brunch with the same group of people, and talked more blogging stuff with KinkInExile, and then spent the day with Tavi.

It was low key, Tavi was still not feeling a hundred percent, so mostly we just loafed and watched Archer. We made an excursion out to Wild At Heart, which we’d heard was the best place to get BDSM gear in Seattle. It was pretty cool. I’ve only ever been in a few sex toy store, but I liked this one the best. The woman behind the counter was super friendly and helpful. We perused for a while looking at the different toys.

At one point Tavi picked out a heavy chain leash and attached it to my collar and tugged. For me that was electric, I’ve read people going on about such and such a word or phrase immediately putting them into subspace and mostly disregarded it since I’ve never experienced anything quite like that. My whole body pulsed, and at that moment I was completely hers.

But the moment passed, and we were in public anyhow. We discussed her picking up a hefty leash like that one soon though. We went back and looked at strap-on harnesses a bit, and the shopkeeper came and talked Tavi into trying on a Spareparts Joque, which she decided to buy. (So excited right now, you don’t even know.)

I’m quite excited with the possibilities, and it looks super hot on her as well.

We had some dinner, when home and loafed about, She broke out her slightly wussy leash and made me wear it. Dragging me into the kitchen behind her. Making me hold the handle in my mouth as I got laundry out of the dryer. It was simple and sweet. There wasn’t much in the way of beatings (except for a bit of impromptu Muay Thai while I made the bed.)

Eventually we kissed goodnight and she sent me home.