So I think I’ve gotten over worst of this pretty nasty cold. I was mostly unconscious the last couple days. When I wasn’t I was fevered, sweating. I was wracked with coughing, and my whole body just hurt. The worst part is none of it was a good pain. The Addams Family, (specifically…
Domesticate me
Lately, I’ve really been digging No, Seriously, What About Teh Menz? it’s a smart, often witty blog, that is making the idea of self identifying as feminist more palatable to me. It makes me think, which is great, when I have tons of time to write posts, but right now has got…
Treading old ground
So DishevelledDomina is at it again, previously she did a series of interviews of submissive men, and now She’s interviewing Dominant women. I would say that I caught the blogging bug from her, and I got my first taste when she interviewed me. However, I was working nights at the time, and I got her list…
I had a date today.
You’ll notice I ended the title sentence with a period, not an exclamation point. It wasn’t bad, in fact, as a practice date I think it went fairly well. We met in a bookstore, I got there early, so did she, so she recognized me in the sci-fi section, which I found…
Words I am avoiding
Language is important, and people will make judgements about you for the words you choose. Since I am trying to make my self as attractive as possible to women with dominant leanings, I have changed my language somewhat to cut out words that I have reason to believe might be found objectionable.…
Freedom?
You know what I kink on harder than pegging, or spanking, or biting, or gingers? Ownership, and symbols of ownership. It’s hard to explain, My masochism seems to me a relatively innocuous kink compared to the desire to have someone else control my autonomy. Which is why I found it easier to explain my…
Old fashioned, Kinky.
I mentioned the other day that I signed up for OKcupid. I’m still sort of apprehensive about it, I think I probably should have waited to take a stab at this, until I was a little more satisfied in a few other areas. But one thing I do like to…
My anaconda don’t want none?
My laptop charger died last week and I just got it replaced yesterday (ok, the day before yesterday, and I’ve been procrastinating. Shit, this is taking forever to write, let’s just say Thursday. I got a new cord on Thursday.). Being without my computer for the better part of a week sucked ,…
Cocks: where they fit into my fantasy life.
I’m apprehensive about writing this post. That what I say might be taken out of context, That someone I know might find my blog. I kind of have this idea, that besides serving as a journal, and a place for discussion, that someday I might meet a lady that I…
Can’t hardly wait
I’m not sure if it comes across in the tone of my writing or not, but when I mention my disinclination to enter the scene, or my trepidation about jumping into the lifestyle, or even just explaining my desires to a future girlfriend, I’m trying to convince myself as much as anyone else. It first…