Since one of the big things I am looking for in a romantic partner is shared religious beliefs, I anticipate that I am going to have to either introduce the concept of BDSM to this hypothetical future partner or perhaps seriously change her perception of BDSM. I think it’s why…
Of two (or more) minds
Clarisse Thorn, who I’ve been reading more and more recently, posted a comment on her most recent post that really encapsulates something I’ve been trying to express for a while. … people have fragmented selves and non-unified minds; we’re pulled in so many directions by biology, culture, outside incentives, etc. But…
Running Man
Readers of Fern’s blog already know my big announcement today. After slacking off for far too long I’m hitting the gym with renewed vigor, following the same exercise routine as Ferns for the next twelve weeks. I’ve got a profile on Jetfit that you can follow if you’re really interested, or just…
On breaking free.
Melancholy, my old friend, visits frequent, once again. As I’ve said before, I’m not a patient man. What is most frustrating about getting let go from my job, is that it feels like I’m again being forced to wait for my life to move forward out of this holding pattern…
Gay with Envy
So given the conversation about privilege that’s been going on on here I might catch a little flak for saying this but, I’m kinda jealous of my gay co-workers. Yeah so, I realize that I’ve got all this privilege as a Straight white middle class cis-male (and this is a…
Am I Sam?
If you weren’t already aware a SAM is a Smart-assed masochist and right now I’m wondering if I am one, or rather am I going to be one? and whether or not that is a bad thing. Obviously whether it’s good or bad would depend on my partner, I know…
Fetishize me Captain!
I’m sure you’re all aware that a sexual fetish is receiving sexual arousal from a specific object or situation. If this attraction causes psychological distress it’s a paraphilia. Generally I notice a “kink” is how people usually refer to a little something extra they like in their sex, (oh I’m just…
Well, Shit.
I don’t want to write a post every single time I go on a date, even though, ostensibly the blog is about my search for a partner, I just don’t want to be overly repetitive. So I was going to wait until my second date to write about this woman I’ve been talking…
Who wants to be an Alpha Male?
So, I’m of course doing my level best to avoid fitting into the stereotype of submissive guys, I’m working on getting fit, I don’t send unsolicited creepy e-mails, to dominant identified women, I try not to obsess about hyper-specific and unrealistic fantasies. You know, all that. But as I read around in my admittedly rather insular community…
I don’t have Addam’s Family values.
So I think I’ve gotten over worst of this pretty nasty cold. I was mostly unconscious the last couple days. When I wasn’t I was fevered, sweating. I was wracked with coughing, and my whole body just hurt. The worst part is none of it was a good pain. The Addams Family, (specifically…