I’ve read a few things this week, that had me thinking about “the BDSM scene” and why I’m disinterested in it. Even though I feel as if my long term happiness is dependent on finding a woman whose desires mesh with mine, I don’t really want to join the community…
How? to be a sexy man.
I intended to write another “As close as it gets” post, my reoccurring feature on popular fiction with D/s themes, but I don’t feel like it. I’m still thinking about Lady D’s comment on my last post. “I think many men…aren’t used to being “desired”…I’ve also noticed that gay and…
Come on feel the noise
I’m not really a worrier, I know I’ve written about a lot of things that I “worry” about. What I really mean when I say that, is that I think about something, and then go “that’s probably not great.” (Such as Femdom in Fiction and the messages it sends.) I…
Oedipus Wrecks
Is it just me or do Mommy/boy fantasies come off as creepier than Daddy/girl? If you’ve been following along, you know I’m not in (nor have I been in) a D/s relationship. Someday, hopefully, I will be in one, and then we (my hypothetical future domme and I) will…
What’s your biggest Fantasy?
There’s a hell of a question. At first glance it seems a completely reasonable thing to ask, but I think it has got to be a lot harder to answer than it ought to be. First of all, there are fantasies and there are fantasies, and there is a pretty…