There is a lot of crap written about BDSM (and F/m relationships in particular.) We’ve all seen unrealistic, downright dangerous advice doled out to the eager and inexperienced, personal fantasies framed as sage instruction, and unlikely erotic narratives posted in the guise of autobiographical truth. This sort of post soon…
I miss her
I miss Tavi. This is not unusual for me, indeed it seems I spend more time pining for her than with her. Sunday she went to a wedding, so I didn’t get to see her. Friday we had a date planned, but she got food poisoning. And the Sunday prior……
Bruised but unbroken
Well those no good fascists at wordpress.com went ahead and decided to enforce their terms of service and prevent me from hosting my “pornographic” content on their website. I figured it was coming, I prepared as best as I knew how to minimize the damage and now I’m back. Submissive in…
Virgin Shaming and Kink
I’m a bit of an odd duck I’m sure you’ve realized by now. Being both an abstinent, virginal, Christian boy and a submissive, masochist, kink blogger is hardly a common pairing. While I’ve thought long and hard about how I might go about making kink and submission sound appealing to…
A new word for Friend-zone
Or rather we need one, actually it’s not even that, we need to not use “Friend-zone” as a verb. I thought I had posted about this but I guess I just had plans to that were interrupted by my being fired and subsequent pity party. Having read a bazillion posts about the phenomena surrounding the…
Show up Naked
So I found this on Tumblr tonight: HOW TO SATISFY A WOMAN EVERY TIME Caress, praise, pamper, relish, savor, massage, make plans, fix, empathize, serenade, compliment, support, feed, tantalize, bathe, humor, placate, stimulate, jiffylube, stroke, console, purr, hug, coddle, excite, pacify, protect, phone, correspond, anticipate, nuzzle, smooch, toast, minister to,…
A taste of your own medicine
So I’ve been hanging out on reddit a bit, and it’s been pointed out that it’s not really the place to be for body-positive or sex positive thought. But there are some absolutely wonderful threads on sex too. And then there are things that catch me by surprise, like this…
Polished Off
Since I don’t already spend enough time online I created a reddit account a few weeks ago. Before work this moring I saw this post, and it has been bugging me all day. So that sucks for Aaron, and it’s not really cool for Brittany here, to publicly announce that…