Jeeze I’ve been busy, I’m working full-time obviously, and I’m taking a bartending course (in hopes of finding a better paying and less demeaning job.) Still, it’s been more than a week since I’ve posted, and so I’m going to do my best even though I like to get a…
e[lust] #47
Photo courtesy of Behind the Chintz Curtain Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included…
e[lust] #46
Photo courtesy of A Penny for Your Dirty Thoughts Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to…
I’m not into scat
Between here and reddit, I’ve been asked a few times for advice on how to go about looking for a kinky relationship. I do my best to help, but I don’t have all the answers. I’m in my first one ever and I lucked into that one by virtue of…
e[lust] #45
Photo courtesy of CreativNooky Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #46?…
Submissive in Love
She loves me. She loves me! SHE LOVES ME! If you’ve been reading through the lines at all for past few months you may have picked up on my falling in love with Tavi. I haven’t said it outright or written till this point because love is fucking scary and…
Escalate this!
As I said, Tavi and I discussed a bit of escalation in our relationship Friday. She’s given me plenty of time to suss out what I want before we move forward, but for the the most part I think I know. If you’ve been reading you know that while we’ve…
First munch, Second impressions
So like I said, I went to my first munch last night. This wasn’t my first time at a BDSM scene event, but it was my first munch, and my first time attending (anything really) by myself not knowing anyone who was going to be there. Instead of going to…
Dominance by Denial
One of the most common little themes I see floating around the discussion of Femdom relationships is that “the way” to get compliance from your male sub is to deny him sex. Not just sex, but sometimes any touch, or affection or permission to view his partners body. Which, listen…
It was a good day.
A good week actually. My first week at my new job rocked. I think it’s fair to say I kicked all sorts of ass. I think this job is going to be really good, and with my experience there is some opportunity to move up the ladder pretty quickly. My mom came…