I’m way behind on posting about this, but I’ve been exhausted this week and couldn’t quite bring myself to put it together. It’s exciting news, but the story is a bit anti-climactic. If you follow me on twitter you already know, I’ve been wearing Tavi’s collar for almost a week now.
For a while I’ve had a play collar, and it’s been a rule that I’m supposed to wear it whenever I’m in Tavi’s presence (So long as it’s appropriate.) So we’ve been playing at having me collared for a while.
On Valentine’s day we decided to get me a day collar, but it took a while to decide on what we both liked. Then Tavi decided that she wanted to make it herself. So she learned how to do chainmail did just that.
It’s a very handsome persian weave chain that sits very comfortably on my skin. She picked up the lock at kinkfest along with her other new toys, and she has the keys.
There wasn’t any ceremony to her collaring me, we talked a bit about what this means to the two of us. While it is a bit of an escalation of the relationship, it is really a symbol for the relationship we already have.
I love it! It’s nice and looks good on you! I know you must be so excited and I can imagine her pride in you wearing it. Congratulations!
Yeah I really like it too! We’re going to probably shorten it by a half inch yet. My work uniform should still cover that, and we want it to hang more like a collar than a necklace.
First, congratulation! And second, as I tweeted, very pretty. Mine is also chainmail that Jalan spent a lot of time researching (not crafting). Sometime I need to get good photos of it up . . . And I very much understand what you mean when you say that it is the relationship you already have.
Thanks! I’m really happy with it.
“I very much understand what you mean when you say that it is the relationship you already have.”
It’s something i was concerned about, before we decided on it. Collars are often talked about in the same vein as wedding bands, but for us, we just wanted a symbol that I belong to her, for however long we’re together.
My husband’s collar is very similar. We too had to shorten his, because there was the same problem with it looking more like a necklace than a collar. I would recommend a smaller lock, too.
We’re going to shorten it probably on Sunday, My preference originally was for a smaller lock, but Tavi chose this one, and feels like it looks more masculine than a smaller one would.
That collar is very beautiful to look at. Tavi did a wonderful job and it looks great on you. Congratulations on having a symbol of your relationship that you can wear with pride!
Thank you very much. I’m very proud of it indeed.
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