Jeeze I’ve been busy, I’m working full-time obviously, and I’m taking a bartending course (in hopes of finding a better paying and less demeaning job.) Still, it’s been more than a week since I’ve posted, and so I’m going to do my best even though I like to get a little drunk on my days off. However you lot don’t typically complain about the spelling and syntax errors I make, so I doubt today will be a problem.
Shark week came early for Tavi the Sunday before last. Luckily, I had prepared in advance. I brought over her favorite Cider, Chocolate bar, and Very Cherry Jelly Bellies, as well as everything I needed to make her dinner. (I know, I am the perfect boyfriend.)
Cramps and bleeding weren’t the only thing hampering intimacy that weekend, I haven’t gotten around to mentioning it here yet, but Tavi got her Clitoral hood pierced a few weeks ago, and while it looks super cute, it also means that she can’t receive oral sex for a few more weeks. So even if I really wanted to earn my red wings, (and I kinda do) I couldn’t do so just yet.
I had previously gotten some bath salts and massage oil for foot rubs, but we never got around to using them before. All I want when I’m with her is for her to feel as good as possible, I want her to be as physically and emotionally fulfilled as I can possibly make her, and knowing that sexytimes, and even arousing stimulus was off the docket for the evening (With a new clit piercing becoming aroused can be painful) It seemed like a perfect time to give Tavi a foot massage.
It definitely was. A nice hot soak, and a gentle massage agreed with her tremendously. Honestly I am surprised how much I enjoyed it. I’ve always thought that the prevalence of foot related femdom wankery out there was a little weird. I’m submissive but don’t have any particular interest in feet themselves. But being on my knees rubbing oil into the soles of Tavi’s dainty feet was an extremely sensual experience.
Definitely in the same ballpark if you use your tongue.
Later in the evening, as we relaxed after dinner I could not resist asking Tavi if I could please kiss her feet. I wanted to have my lips on her, I wanted to taste her, and I was euphoric when she indulged me in that way. (Although she did stop me from sucking her toes because it was causing her some pain.)
I’m also working on giving her pedicures
She teased me a bit about how into her feet I was, and I countered by asking if she would let me kiss her all over the rest of her body, She conceded that she would not, and I went back to lavishing attention to the one part of her that she afforded me.
I don’t have a foot fetish, but I do have an oral fixation and a strong attraction to being beneath my lover and under her control. The acts so often associated with foot fetishism align quite well with serving my desires as well. It’s strange to me that I should enjoy it as much as I do, but I do.
Perhaps I just have a Tavi Fetish.
I’ve had multiple subs develop a bit of a foot fetish while they’re serving me. I’m told my feet are exceptionally cute but I suspect it’s more about their connection with me and how serving that part of my body makes them feel. It’s always fun to watch the transformation. It starts with a Lilyana or Tavi fetish and progresses to include Lilyana feet and toes or Tavi feet and toes.
I’m so glad you decided to write about this. I love seeing the sub’s view on it.
I love seeing both a Dom and subs view on this! I am very new at this and a brand new sub and it is so interesting to see these different views on D/s relationships. Your blog is so interesting to read to read from a Dom’s point of view. I am new to WordPress and new to the lifestyle and yours and also submissiveinseattles blogs I am so hooked on reading 🙂 just thought I would let you both know u have fans! Haha
I can imagine that some positive reinforcement could change the way I look at feet in general. Though for now I’m reasonably sure it’s my affection for her that makes her feet appealing.
I’m glad you enjoyed it.
I agree with being at the feet and beneath the one you serve feels the best which Is probably why you loved it so much. What a caring great sub you are:) inspiring:)
Physically lowering myself before her really puts me in a happy subby-mindset, if I can serve her from there it is euphoric.
I know exactly what you mean! There is something about being beneath your Dom that gives you an indescribable feeling of comfort and the euphoria 🙂
Awwww! It’s so great hearing happy stories/experiences like this! And whether you have a developing foot fetish or a Tavi fetish, doesn’t much matter as long as the two of you are happy!
I’m glad you enjoyed it. It’s interesting to watch my interests and arousal patterns fluctuate, but I concur that our happiness is the most important factor here.
I don’t have a foot fetish, but I do have an oral fixation and a strong attraction to being beneath my lover and under her control.
I’m exactly the same way. Jalan wants the occasional foot (or boot) worship. It’s not a thing for me — though I dearly love looking at boots — but doing what she wants when she wants it? Absolutely a thing.
Totally a thing!
ah, i would have to say i most definitely, positively have a foot fetish. However, i am restricted from kissing/sucking Her toes most of the time! i really only get to kiss Her toes as a reward, and only when She has something to keep herself occupied, like a book or needlework.
See I really don’t, and never had much interest in them at all. So I’m surprised how much kissing her feet does for me, and how much I want to do it some more.
At a play party in May, I was sitting on a couch when a switchy woman I know decided to stretch out, laying her feet on my legs. I didn’t have any play planned that night, and I felt awkward just sitting there, so I asked if I could give her a foot rub. She gave the OK, and she really enjoyed it. It was fun, mostly because she enjoyed it. I just like making people smile.
Service is definitely a big thing for me, especially serving her. It’s just nice to make the people you like feel good.
I didn’t think I had a foot fetish either, until I started noticing Ms Ferns’ incessant shoe pictures.
Oh, I absolutely do have a shoe/boot fetish. Not the same thing! But plaudits to Ferns, no less.
I have somehow NEVER heard it referred to as shark week :::cue the “have you been living under a rock” jokes. Because I know (in my best Monica voice) and I deserve them::: but I will from this point forward until the end of time. Because it is so fucking accurate.
And awwww on the Tavi fetish 🙂
Shark week is a good one, Red tide, having the Communists invade the fun house are also some of my favorites.
She is pretty magnificent.