As you already know, I’m going to a play party Friday, and I’m also going to go a Birthday party for someone I met through the BDSM scene. Which is a pretty full docket for me, since I’m often a bit of a homebody. In anycase on Sunday I got…
Virgin Shaming and Kink
I’m a bit of an odd duck I’m sure you’ve realized by now. Being both an abstinent, virginal, Christian boy and a submissive, masochist, kink blogger is hardly a common pairing. While I’ve thought long and hard about how I might go about making kink and submission sound appealing to…
Personal Ad news
So I posted a personal ad in a few different spots online Sunday. I also Put up a profile on CollarMe, not that I’ve ever heard anything good about the site, but it takes little effort for me to post a profile with a few relevant details. So far results have been Ok.…
Under-thinking precedes Over-thinking
If you are at all familiar with my blog you should be able to tell that I over think almost everything, especially in regards to inter-personal relationships. Except sometimes I don’t. You may recall that I totally jumped the gun on signing up for OKCupid. I sometimes think about finding…
Curiouser and curiouser.
So I have a younger sibling, who is pretty cool, I guess, I’ve often said they were trying to be a miniature version of me growing up. A few months ago we were talking, and when the subject came up of my most recently read books came up, I mentioned Kushiel’s dart…
For sale, to Good Home.
I was going to hold off on writing on this topic until I had a new job (still working on that) cause I’m not after sympathy, I just want to discuss submissiveness and and depression. Not that there is a connection or even a correlation between the two, but since there are 18.8…
Going to bat
The struggle to make male submission an accepted expression of sexuality is obviously just one teeny-tiny part of a larger struggle for the freedom of sexual expression everywhere. It’s one of those instances, where I figure one should lead, follow or get out of the way. I very much appreciate the…
How can that Turn you on?
I originally posted this on Tumblr, before I started this blog. I’m quite satisfied with this little post on masochism, and occasionally link it to other things, (like most recent post) but every time I do I have to hunt through my archives to find it, so Now I’m putting it here…
Of two (or more) minds
Clarisse Thorn, who I’ve been reading more and more recently, posted a comment on her most recent post that really encapsulates something I’ve been trying to express for a while. … people have fragmented selves and non-unified minds; we’re pulled in so many directions by biology, culture, outside incentives, etc. But…
Addressing Privilege for the first time
For the first time in my life I’ve started to really examine privilege. Up until this point (as a straight white male) it has been easy to ignore the issue of privilege. Not just easy, effortless, I know I’ve heard it mentioned before, but it was usually in sort of…