I was awfully optimistic when we went into lockdown that I’d be pumping out all the writing I’d wanted to do but had been too busy for. Since we’re now halfway into Locktober, here’s a chastity round-robin I started back in freakin May. I shared these questions and their responses…
Apologies to TheGoddessZoe
A brief Interlude after dropping last post’s melodramatic update (and next week’s blush inducing one.) So, as I was planning out this series of posts to bring this blog up to date. It occured to me that I owe TheGoddessZoe an apology. There is a comment chain on my “About…
Cha-cha-changes pt 2b: More Chastity
Part 2b in bringing my blog up to speed with my life — Where we are with chastity now, felt like it needed its own post. You can read the last one here. Chaos and I have been quietly playing with chastity for a few years. It is a lot…
Cha-cha-changes pt. 2: Chastity
Part two of my fast-forward catch-up series on the past four years of my kinky life. Read part one here. It was a bit of a whim. We had been practicing orgasm denial for quite a while, and as my sex drive fluctuated, between meds, being overworked… Orgasm Denial often…
Sleep when I’m dead.
Earlier this week, Tavi asked me if I could be her ride Friday night. She had a thing for work, and there would be drinking, and she’d appreciate a ride home. Of course I readily agreed, The opportunity to see her, serve her, even for a small task like this is always…
Getting off isn’t so easy
Something I remember reading when I first started looking into BDSM was that it wasn’t necessarily sexual for some people. This was a little tricky to grasp for me because it is pretty intensely sexual for me. Well, parts of it are. D/s is definitely how I enjoy my romantic and sexual interactions to play out,…
On Orgasm control
Occasionally I’ve seen it suggested in discussions about female dominated relationships that chastity and orgasm control are the height of the power exchange. Sentiments to the effect that once a woman gains authority over that aspect of her partner she can control everything else. That’s bullshit, obviously. At least I hope…
Glutton for Punishment
If you read my last post, you know that Tavi had me refrain from masturbating for 3 1/2 days last week. If you follow my twitter you saw me whine semi-constantly all weekend. Sunday rolled around, Tavi allowed me to get off, and I didn’t die of sexual frustration. Here’s…
Beat it.
This morning I was already missing Tavi, we had a date night last night, but I’m just sort of desperately in need of attention right now. I’ll see her Sunday, but I wanted a little something more to hold me over. So I texted and asked if it would be weird if I asked…