I’m sure you’re all aware that a sexual fetish is receiving sexual arousal from a specific object or situation. If this attraction causes psychological distress it’s a paraphilia. Generally I notice a “kink” is how people usually refer to a little something extra they like in their sex, (oh I’m just…
Realism
Who wants to be an Alpha Male?
So, I’m of course doing my level best to avoid fitting into the stereotype of submissive guys, I’m working on getting fit, I don’t send unsolicited creepy e-mails, to dominant identified women, I try not to obsess about hyper-specific and unrealistic fantasies. You know, all that. But as I read around in my admittedly rather insular community…
Domesticate me
Lately, I’ve really been digging No, Seriously, What About Teh Menz? it’s a smart, often witty blog, that is making the idea of self identifying as feminist more palatable to me. It makes me think, which is great, when I have tons of time to write posts, but right now has got…
Peroxide hits the Scene
I had a bit of a hellacious week at work, and I’ve sat down for at least a little while every night to try and put this post into the right words. I haven’t managed so far, but I need to put it out there, because I have a (slightly)…
When I say Submissive…
My personal favorite author and definite candidate for a later as close as it gets post Neal Stephenson included the following exchange in his genre-bending epic Cryptonomicon “I don’t like the word ‘addict’ because it has terrible connotations,” Root says one day, as they are sunning themselves on the afterdeck.…