Submissive in Seattle is 12 years old, and I have not given it the upkeep I ought to for a project that shaped my early adulthood, saw me defining my identity, and meet the woman I would marry. I decided to change that. I’ll be reviewing and updating my old…
10 years of Submissive in Seattle
I started this blog ten years ago. At the time I was sharing an apartment with three bro-y Christian dudes, and had no one in my life with whom I could talk-through everything going through my head (and pants). It seems to me that a lot of guys end up…
Apologies to TheGoddessZoe
A brief Interlude after dropping last post’s melodramatic update (and next week’s blush inducing one.) So, as I was planning out this series of posts to bring this blog up to date. It occured to me that I owe TheGoddessZoe an apology. There is a comment chain on my “About…
Cha-cha-changes pt 2b: More Chastity
Part 2b in bringing my blog up to speed with my life — Where we are with chastity now, felt like it needed its own post. You can read the last one here. Chaos and I have been quietly playing with chastity for a few years. It is a lot…
“Butt stuff” for Boys (and beginners)
I have an amazing girlfriend, who sometimes fucks me in the ass. The act is not only pleasurable in itself, but also a deeply erotic fulfillment of long-held fantasies. I’m not quite sure exactly when I began to experiment with “Butt Stuff,” but it was at some point in my…
How do I beg?
I’ve learned a lot from porn over the years. I mean that. If you can look past the commodity that mainstream porn is trying to sell you, there is a lot of information about sex and eroticism to be gleaned. There is even more if you look at the work…
Imminently Corruptible.
So, starting off on the backlog of things I want to write about: Did you know that the brilliant and enchanting ProfessorChaos (Domme, Scientist, and one half of the authorship of Labcoats and Lingerie) has made her home in Seattle? I even got to meet her! (Pretty cool, am I…
Pride before the Fall
First things first, you’ve probably heard that lately WordPress has been pulling sex blogs with no notice. I’ve backed up Submissive In Seattle, and am looking about for a way I can self host, but I don’t really have any money to spend on it, and I don’t want to…
How To find (and catch) a Male Submissive
There are a lot of posts, guides, lists, and how-tos floating around online telling submissive men how to find themselves a dominant woman. And there are lots of guides available on how to go about dominating a submissive man. But I’ve noticed a distinct lack of guidance and advice specifically for dominant…