There was a post I was thinking about writing at one point, about how silly it is that first piece of advice often given to people beginning to explore kink is to have a safeword. Actually, I still think it’s a little ridiculous for the first piece of advice for a couple beginning…
Young Kinky People
There isn’t exactly a wealth of information aimed at young kinky people. There are a few resources (such as Scarleteen) which provide some information of BDSM to younger people, but for the most part kinksters are assumed to be established adults. In any case, I feel like they’re isn’t a…
Heaven’s in the Details
Apropos of the correspondence in this post, and the comments on this one, I’m going to try to express how I can see BDSM as not just sexual but romantic. Dominance and submission are the elements of BDSM I that I see as having the most potential to be an…
How can that Turn you on?
I originally posted this on Tumblr, before I started this blog. I’m quite satisfied with this little post on masochism, and occasionally link it to other things, (like most recent post) but every time I do I have to hunt through my archives to find it, so Now I’m putting it here…
As Close as it gets #5 Whedonverse
As Close as it Gets is my re-occurring feature to highlight media I like that contains vicarious Femdom thrills. This Time I’m covering all the shows of Joss Whedon. I’m doing four shows at once, because while there are a significant number of moments, images and themes that hit the spot…
Fetishize me Captain!
I’m sure you’re all aware that a sexual fetish is receiving sexual arousal from a specific object or situation. If this attraction causes psychological distress it’s a paraphilia. Generally I notice a “kink” is how people usually refer to a little something extra they like in their sex, (oh I’m just…
Treading old ground
So DishevelledDomina is at it again, previously she did a series of interviews of submissive men, and now She’s interviewing Dominant women. I would say that I caught the blogging bug from her, and I got my first taste when she interviewed me. However, I was working nights at the time, and I got her list…
Peroxide hits the Scene
I had a bit of a hellacious week at work, and I’ve sat down for at least a little while every night to try and put this post into the right words. I haven’t managed so far, but I need to put it out there, because I have a (slightly)…