It’s a good question, and bears considering for this second go around. There are a few reasons I have decided to come back to blogging, a lot of it is predicated on the same desire to have a resource like the one I wanted when I was 22. The internet…
Cha-cha-changes pt. 2: Chastity
Part two of my fast-forward catch-up series on the past four years of my kinky life. Read part one here. It was a bit of a whim. We had been practicing orgasm denial for quite a while, and as my sex drive fluctuated, between meds, being overworked… Orgasm Denial often…
How do I beg?
I’ve learned a lot from porn over the years. I mean that. If you can look past the commodity that mainstream porn is trying to sell you, there is a lot of information about sex and eroticism to be gleaned. There is even more if you look at the work…
Losing the Sex Box
I’ve strayed quite a ways from the path I thought I would be walking at the beginning of my twenties. I suppose none of us remain who we think we are for long. Life is a journey that changes us in increments. I’m not dismayed by the change, indeed; I…
Goodbye Kiss
Chaos has gone home for the holidays. *Sigh* We spent most of the weekend together, but on Tuesday we both had much to do. By the time I got to her apartment we had only a little time before it was time to head to the airport. I did get to give…
Unpoached*
I’ve got kinda really big news that I‘ve been keeping under my hat. I hope those of you that read regularly aren’t upset that I didn’t spill these beans right away, I have some reasons which I’ll get into in a moment, but I won’t keep you waiting any longer.…
Failure
I think I’ve posted around here somewhere that Tavi tasked me with going back to school. Indeed the fall quarter starts on Monday and I am supposed to be attending. However I failed to have all my paperwork and tuition together in time for this quarter. I had a good…
I miss her
I miss Tavi. This is not unusual for me, indeed it seems I spend more time pining for her than with her. Sunday she went to a wedding, so I didn’t get to see her. Friday we had a date planned, but she got food poisoning. And the Sunday prior……
Bitter Tears
I do try and portray the reality of my experiences without cherry picking or sugar-coating too much. I think it’s important for there to be portrayals of BDSM (especially F/m) that highlights the fact that it is a relationship, in the real world, between two imperfect individuals. It can be…
Wax on, Wax off!
Since I know many of my readers only tune in for a chance to leer at my paradisiacal trim young body and because I’m so gratified to have many of my readers promoting my new address, This post is something of a treat for you. I’d sort of allowed waxing…