It’s a good question, and bears considering for this second go around. There are a few reasons I have decided to come back to blogging, a lot of it is predicated on the same desire to have a resource like the one I wanted when I was 22. The internet…
10 years of Submissive in Seattle
I started this blog ten years ago. At the time I was sharing an apartment with three bro-y Christian dudes, and had no one in my life with whom I could talk-through everything going through my head (and pants). It seems to me that a lot of guys end up…
Chastity Round Robin
I was awfully optimistic when we went into lockdown that I’d be pumping out all the writing I’d wanted to do but had been too busy for. Since we’re now halfway into Locktober, here’s a chastity round-robin I started back in freakin May. I shared these questions and their responses…
Cha-cha-changes pt 3: Losing my religion
When I started blogging, it was a way for me to explore my identity. Specifically, my religion and upbringing as a Christian and how it conflicted with my newfound identity as a kinky (eventually bisexual) submissive man. And now… And now, I’m not a Christian. That’s hard to write. It’s…
Bruised but unbroken
Well those no good fascists at wordpress.com went ahead and decided to enforce their terms of service and prevent me from hosting my “pornographic” content on their website. I figured it was coming, I prepared as best as I knew how to minimize the damage and now I’m back. Submissive in…
How To find (and catch) a Male Submissive
There are a lot of posts, guides, lists, and how-tos floating around online telling submissive men how to find themselves a dominant woman. And there are lots of guides available on how to go about dominating a submissive man. But I’ve noticed a distinct lack of guidance and advice specifically for dominant…
As Close as it gets #7: Webcomic edition
While it can be difficult to find good, positive representation of Female dominant relationships in fiction it’s not that rare to see at least some BDSM in many webcomics. Sometimes it’s merely a secondary or tertiary character. such as Clarisse in Girls with Slingshots, or Marten’s mother in Questionable Content. Which is nice and all,…
Holy Shit!
I found out tonight (or last night if you’re reading this in the morning) That I made Between My Sheets’ list of 100 best sex bloggers of 2012. I didn’t even think I was in the running for this sort of thing. (Particularly since I have neglected to actually have…