Below I’ve included the original draft document for a post I referenced earlier. Dishevelled Domina was a Lifestyle kinkster from a Southern Baptist background (if I recall correctly.) Very kind and generous with her time. I think pleased to find another person grappling with the unique mental gymnastics required to…
What Was I saying? #1 “This is my blog, there are many like it, but this one is mine.”
Submissive in Seattle is 12 years old, and I have not given it the upkeep I ought to for a project that shaped my early adulthood, saw me defining my identity, and meet the woman I would marry. I decided to change that. I’ll be reviewing and updating my old…
10 years of Submissive in Seattle
I started this blog ten years ago. At the time I was sharing an apartment with three bro-y Christian dudes, and had no one in my life with whom I could talk-through everything going through my head (and pants). It seems to me that a lot of guys end up…
Chastity Round Robin
I was awfully optimistic when we went into lockdown that I’d be pumping out all the writing I’d wanted to do but had been too busy for. Since we’re now halfway into Locktober, here’s a chastity round-robin I started back in freakin May. I shared these questions and their responses…
Puppyboy
Chaos and I have been doing a lot more puppy play recently than I ever suspected I would engage in. It started with, I don’t know, her commenting that I was like a cute puppy, especially when my hair would flop over my face. She started using “puppydog” as often…
Ride’em Cowboy
A few weeks ago Chaos tried to fist me again. It was marvelous; she’s getting pretty close to being able to fit her whole hand inside me, I told her that I had stretched myself out with Dita (my biggest and most realistic dildo) ahead of time. When she told…
“Butt stuff” for Boys (and beginners)
I have an amazing girlfriend, who sometimes fucks me in the ass. The act is not only pleasurable in itself, but also a deeply erotic fulfillment of long-held fantasies. I’m not quite sure exactly when I began to experiment with “Butt Stuff,” but it was at some point in my…
May I please be weak?
There is a lot of crap written about BDSM (and F/m relationships in particular.) We’ve all seen unrealistic, downright dangerous advice doled out to the eager and inexperienced, personal fantasies framed as sage instruction, and unlikely erotic narratives posted in the guise of autobiographical truth. This sort of post soon…
Bitter Tears
I do try and portray the reality of my experiences without cherry picking or sugar-coating too much. I think it’s important for there to be portrayals of BDSM (especially F/m) that highlights the fact that it is a relationship, in the real world, between two imperfect individuals. It can be…