Why Blog?

You may be asking yourself why a perfectly healthy, otherwise well adjusted young man has decided to start a blog.

I know I am.

I’ve been considering this for a while. I’ve got a lot that I’d like to talk about, and I can’t just hog other people’s space all the time.

I have written a few things already. Dishevelled Domina has graciously hosted my ramblings twice now. Once for a piece on Femdom in the media (where I spent most of my time talking about porn) more recently a post I called Kinky two shoes in which the topic was related to the impetus for this blog.

I’m a virgin, I plan on staying that way until I get married.

I’m also kinky, have submissive fantasies, masochistic tendencies and I sigh wistfully at the thought of having someone locking her collar around my neck.

There doesn’t seem to be a lot of resources for people like me. So I figured I might as well be the one to put it out there, Talk about what it’s like to balance these things, what turns me on, why, talk about how I’m going about trying to find a dominant partner.

Hopefully if you’re in the same or a similar boat, you’ll feel better knowing you’re not the only one. (or better yet, if you’re a woman considering Dominance and submission you’ll see that there are some reasonable guys out there that would love for you to tie them up and hit them )

– Peroxide