Apropos of the correspondence in this post, and the comments on this one, I’m going to try to express how I can see BDSM as not just sexual but romantic. Dominance and submission are the elements of BDSM I that I see as having the most potential to be an…
Slacking
I’m having difficulty getting some things onto the page, so here’s something old that’s been languishing on my Fetlife page. An amusing anecdote in which our hero is beset by lesbians. One afternoon a few years ago I was working at a drive-thu espresso stand. I was either manning the stand…
Fuck.
That sweet new job that I was digging so much and quit my last job to take, decided I wasn’t fast enough and let me go today. It’s hardly the end of the world, and I’m certain I’ll find something here pretty soon. Still it’s a bummer because I really…
Fetishize me Captain!
I’m sure you’re all aware that a sexual fetish is receiving sexual arousal from a specific object or situation. If this attraction causes psychological distress it’s a paraphilia. Generally I notice a “kink” is how people usually refer to a little something extra they like in their sex, (oh I’m just…
Words I am avoiding
Language is important, and people will make judgements about you for the words you choose. Since I am trying to make my self as attractive as possible to women with dominant leanings, I have changed my language somewhat to cut out words that I have reason to believe might be found objectionable.…
Old fashioned, Kinky.
I mentioned the other day that I signed up for OKcupid. I’m still sort of apprehensive about it, I think I probably should have waited to take a stab at this, until I was a little more satisfied in a few other areas. But one thing I do like to…
My anaconda don’t want none?
My laptop charger died last week and I just got it replaced yesterday (ok, the day before yesterday, and I’ve been procrastinating. Shit, this is taking forever to write, let’s just say Thursday. I got a new cord on Thursday.). Being without my computer for the better part of a week sucked ,…
I don’t wanna be where The wild things are
I’ve read a few things this week, that had me thinking about “the BDSM scene” and why I’m disinterested in it. Even though I feel as if my long term happiness is dependent on finding a woman whose desires mesh with mine, I don’t really want to join the community…
It’s My Birthday
I turn Twenty-three today, I beleive I’m owed 23 spankings… on second thought make that 276 to make up for my previous birthdays as well. Sigh, Off to work.
Peroxide’s Shiny New Year
I’ll be twenty-three in a few weeks. Firmly ensconced in my twenties with not much to show for it. I’ve let the last few years slip by, and so as I begin 2012 I’ve resolved to accomplish some things this year. It’s funny, none of my friends have made new…