Speaking of getting off, Something that I’ve been interested in doing for a while now is doing some sex toy reviews. I think it would be an interesting change of pace for one. For two, I don’t recall seeing very many toy reviews by men, (although I don’t read that many men’s blogs)…
Getting off isn’t so easy
Something I remember reading when I first started looking into BDSM was that it wasn’t necessarily sexual for some people. This was a little tricky to grasp for me because it is pretty intensely sexual for me. Well, parts of it are. D/s is definitely how I enjoy my romantic and sexual interactions to play out,…
Talk to your partner!
Seriously, do it. That’s always the answer to relationship questions. Even in… hell, especially in D/s relationships. More communication is a good thing. About once a week I see a thread pop up on /r/BDSMCommunity that goes something like this. My SO is submissive and I’m sort of new to…
Spooning
I’m totally wiped out today. Too tired to finish a post I’ve been working on, or to write fiction, though I have something in the works I’m excited about. But, I want to write something, and since I’m having trouble getting to sleep I figured I share a bit about the wonderful…
TMI Tuesday
I’m been rather busy as of late, but I think I need to get at least a quick post up to fill you all in. Sunday night was date night for Tavi and I. She asked me to write up a revised list of hard limits for our transition in…
My Birthday, her toy.
Friday was my twenty-fourth birthday. Honestly it was the best birthday I can remember having. I although I’ve got a bit of a stomach bug that’s been going around. I spent the better part of the day trying to get over than so I could enjoy the evening with Tavi. I…
Oh, what a night!
Scratch that this should be called Oh, what a beautiful morning! My weekend was great if you hadn’t guessed, or if you don’t follow me on twitter. I’ve got quite a bit to talk about, some of it may have to wait for later posts, but for now let’s do…
Rainchecked!
My play-date had been postponed till next month. Something important came up on her end, I didn’t ask what. While a small disappointment, the news did alleviate the butterflies I was starting to get. The nervous excitement of a new social event, and naughty fun. It’s also given me more…
Under-thinking precedes Over-thinking
If you are at all familiar with my blog you should be able to tell that I over think almost everything, especially in regards to inter-personal relationships. Except sometimes I don’t. You may recall that I totally jumped the gun on signing up for OKCupid. I sometimes think about finding…