I don’t want to write a post every single time I go on a date, even though, ostensibly the blog is about my search for a partner, I just don’t want to be overly repetitive. So I was going to wait until my second date to write about this woman I’ve been talking…
Who wants to be an Alpha Male?
So, I’m of course doing my level best to avoid fitting into the stereotype of submissive guys, I’m working on getting fit, I don’t send unsolicited creepy e-mails, to dominant identified women, I try not to obsess about hyper-specific and unrealistic fantasies. You know, all that. But as I read around in my admittedly rather insular community…
Polished Off
Since I don’t already spend enough time online I created a reddit account a few weeks ago. Before work this moring I saw this post, and it has been bugging me all day. So that sucks for Aaron, and it’s not really cool for Brittany here, to publicly announce that…
As Close as it Gets #3: A Knights Tale
Sorry for not posting lately folks, I’ve been working a ton. (also I just had my Xbox repaired, and find fighting dragons more relaxing that writing blog posts.) As Close as it Gets (for readers just joining us) is my ongoing series on Femdom and assorted D/s in mainstream(ish) fiction. I’ve…
Peroxide hits the Scene
I had a bit of a hellacious week at work, and I’ve sat down for at least a little while every night to try and put this post into the right words. I haven’t managed so far, but I need to put it out there, because I have a (slightly)…
I’ve been a bad, bad boy.
OK folks, confession time. I just got back from the gym, for the first time. For those of you who haven’t been following along, my gym membership began on the twentieth, of last month. I have this whole mental plan on how to be a better person for my future…
Old fashioned, Kinky.
I mentioned the other day that I signed up for OKcupid. I’m still sort of apprehensive about it, I think I probably should have waited to take a stab at this, until I was a little more satisfied in a few other areas. But one thing I do like to…
Can’t hardly wait
I’m not sure if it comes across in the tone of my writing or not, but when I mention my disinclination to enter the scene, or my trepidation about jumping into the lifestyle, or even just explaining my desires to a future girlfriend, I’m trying to convince myself as much as anyone else. It first…
I don’t wanna be where The wild things are
I’ve read a few things this week, that had me thinking about “the BDSM scene” and why I’m disinterested in it. Even though I feel as if my long term happiness is dependent on finding a woman whose desires mesh with mine, I don’t really want to join the community…