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Tell me again, How can a man be submissive and sexy?

I’m still struggling to find a way to be a sexy man. One of my major stumbling blocks is that the foundation of heterosexual male attractiveness in our culture is masculinity, which is always coded as dominant (among other things.) In preparation and inspiration for this post I read another…

Going to bat

The struggle to make male submission an accepted expression of sexuality is obviously just one teeny-tiny part of a larger struggle for the freedom of sexual expression everywhere. It’s one of those instances, where I figure one should lead, follow or get out of the way. I very much appreciate the…

Addressing Privilege for the first time

For the first time in my life I’ve started to really examine privilege. Up until this point (as a straight white male) it has been easy to ignore the issue of privilege. Not just easy, effortless, I know I’ve heard it mentioned before, but it was usually in sort of…

As close as it gets #4: The Baroque Cycle

If I could pick the brain of any person on the planet it would be Neal Stephenson, He’s been my favorite for years, I’ve read many of his books several times over and come away from them each time feeling less alone in the world. His novels are erudite, eclectic…

Fetishize me Captain!

I’m sure you’re all aware that a sexual fetish is receiving sexual arousal from a specific object or situation. If this attraction causes psychological distress it’s a paraphilia. Generally I notice a “kink” is how people usually refer to a little something extra they like in their sex, (oh I’m just…

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