Submissive in Seattle

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Proper care for your boytoy

I’m not doing well. The process of tapering off of Effexor is draining all of my energy, and at the same time my anxiety and depression are riding high. What really bothers me about being so broken is that my lack of emotional energy, my low threshold for any type…

Bad Blogger, No Cookie!

Fuck, I’m a bad blogger. I’ve had a whole lot going on in the last month (as you might expect since my last post was about my decision to lose my virginity.) I’ve done some relativity major life changes in this time and just not had the energy to tell…

Stu-stu-studio

Readers who don’t venture onto twitter, may be really worried for me under the impression that I’m still homeless. (I’m not, by the way.) I spent a few weeks couch surfing before the building I wanted to live in finally got back to me. Once that happened, the paperwork went…

Flash Forward

I want to get an actual post about interesting things (instead of feelings) up, I’ve got topical things I want to right on, but life just keeps on coming.  I have written a bunch of personal posts lately, because obviously big things have been happening. (I’m doing really well by…

Collar’d Me

I’m way behind on posting about this, but I’ve been exhausted this week and couldn’t quite bring myself to put it together. It’s exciting news, but the story is a bit anti-climactic. If you follow me on twitter you already know, I’ve been wearing Tavi’s collar for almost a week now. For…

How To find (and catch) a Male Submissive

There are a lot of posts, guides, lists, and how-tos floating around online telling submissive men how to find themselves a dominant woman. And there are lots of guides available on how to go about dominating a submissive man. But I’ve noticed a distinct lack of guidance and advice specifically for dominant…

Change of plans

I had a date with Tavi on Saturday, probably the last real date night we’re going to have for a few weeks as she’s cramming for the Gmat right now. We had plans for doing some new play, with a toy she brought back from kinkfest, and I was pretty…

Talk to your partner!

Seriously, do it. That’s always the answer to relationship questions. Even in… hell, especially in D/s relationships. More communication is a good thing. About once a week I see a thread pop up on /r/BDSMCommunity that goes something like this. My SO is submissive and I’m sort of new to…

Lippy

It is a small disappointment to me that I am not a Smart-assed Masochist. Rather than endlessly quipping as the pain escalates, I’ll make a brave attempt to be clever, and then immediately recant, back peddle, beg for forgiveness and finally break down into cries and whimpers. Far from being too kinky…

Hot Plans

As you already know, I’m going to a play party Friday, and I’m also going to go a Birthday party for someone I met through the BDSM scene. Which is a pretty full docket for me, since I’m often a bit of a homebody. In anycase on Sunday I got…

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