Submissive in Seattle is 12 years old, and I have not given it the upkeep I ought to for a project that shaped my early adulthood, saw me defining my identity, and meet the woman I would marry. I decided to change that. I’ll be reviewing and updating my old…
Part two of my fast-forward catch-up series on the past four years of my kinky life. Read part one here. It was a bit of a whim. We had been practicing orgasm denial for quite a while, and as my sex drive fluctuated, between meds, being overworked… Orgasm Denial often…
Chaos and I have been doing a lot more puppy play recently than I ever suspected I would engage in. It started with, I don’t know, her commenting that I was like a cute puppy, especially when my hair would flop over my face. She started using “puppydog” as often…
There is a lot of crap written about BDSM (and F/m relationships in particular.) We’ve all seen unrealistic, downright dangerous advice doled out to the eager and inexperienced, personal fantasies framed as sage instruction, and unlikely erotic narratives posted in the guise of autobiographical truth. This sort of post soon…
On the off chance you read my blog but haven’t seen it yet, the fantastic and sweet Submissive Guy Comics released an animated comic about Tavi and I! The exchange pictured happened towards the end of the evening described in Tasting Her. While I’m a bit more…
Earlier this week, Tavi asked me if I could be her ride Friday night. She had a thing for work, and there would be drinking, and she’d appreciate a ride home. Of course I readily agreed, The opportunity to see her, serve her, even for a small task like this is always…
I’ve been depressed the past few weeks. I’m having what I tend to think of as a low period, which for me is usually a couple of weeks of intensely negative feelings, lethargy, weariness maybe some aches and pains. I’m fairly certain it’s coming towards a close, or at least a middle, since I’m able…
This morning I was already missing Tavi, we had a date night last night, but I’m just sort of desperately in need of attention right now. I’ll see her Sunday, but I wanted a little something more to hold me over. So I texted and asked if it would be weird if I asked…
As I said, Tavi and I discussed a bit of escalation in our relationship Friday. She’s given me plenty of time to suss out what I want before we move forward, but for the the most part I think I know. If you’ve been reading you know that while we’ve…
I was going to hold off on writing on this topic until I had a new job (still working on that) cause I’m not after sympathy, I just want to discuss submissiveness and and depression. Not that there is a connection or even a correlation between the two, but since there are 18.8…
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