First things first, you’ve probably heard that lately WordPress has been pulling sex blogs with no notice. I’ve backed up Submissive In Seattle, and am looking about for a way I can self host, but I don’t really have any money to spend on it, and I don’t want to…
Practically a Superhero
On the off chance you read my blog but haven’t seen it yet, the fantastic and sweet Submissive Guy Comics released an animated comic about Tavi and I! The exchange pictured happened towards the end of the evening described in Tasting Her. While I’m a bit more…
Unchained
I’ve mentioned on twitter that the lock to my collar ended up triggering a previously unsuspected nickel allergy. It took me about a week to figure out what was going on, and start looking for solutions. The first thing we tried was coating the back with nail polish. The cheap…
Can’t tell anyone
I don’t know exactly how to frame this story, but I feel pretty much obligated to share it with you folks. With the stress of my car troubles behind me I wanted last Sunday to be something special. I brought Tavi her favorite hard cider and we spend the afternoon…
Collar’d Me
I’m way behind on posting about this, but I’ve been exhausted this week and couldn’t quite bring myself to put it together. It’s exciting news, but the story is a bit anti-climactic. If you follow me on twitter you already know, I’ve been wearing Tavi’s collar for almost a week now. For…
I’m not into scat
Between here and reddit, I’ve been asked a few times for advice on how to go about looking for a kinky relationship. I do my best to help, but I don’t have all the answers. I’m in my first one ever and I lucked into that one by virtue of…
How To find (and catch) a Male Submissive
There are a lot of posts, guides, lists, and how-tos floating around online telling submissive men how to find themselves a dominant woman. And there are lots of guides available on how to go about dominating a submissive man. But I’ve noticed a distinct lack of guidance and advice specifically for dominant…
Solicitation all around
In which I solicit your input and then inflict unsolicited advice in return! I’ve got this idea that I’m working on to write out a bit of a guide to finding a male-sub partner, but I’m still collecting information, and trying to put together something that is more helpful than…
Change of plans
I had a date with Tavi on Saturday, probably the last real date night we’re going to have for a few weeks as she’s cramming for the Gmat right now. We had plans for doing some new play, with a toy she brought back from kinkfest, and I was pretty…
Busy Busy Week
I’ve got piles of things I want to write about, but since it’s been almost a week since I’ve written. I figured I’d toss out a quick update. Last Wednesday I got to spend a ton of time with Tavi, which was awesome, since our midweek dates are usually kinda short. I…